Being Single

Being Single could be a scary thing for some people, i admit it was scary for me especially I've just got out from a 3.5 years long relationship last July. Well I experienced my worst fear of being single, that is being alone because I'm used to with the very presence of her in my life and  i was not very good at being alone without taking care of someone, well that's my case though i don't know about others.

Anuptophobia is a fear of being single, well who doesn't anyway? But here's a thought, so you are afraid of being single thus you decided to hop on to the next relationship train you can get within short time after you broke up with your former significant other, case solved. Well it doesn't solve a thing according to my opinion it just creates more problem, why ?

Here's why :

1. You are still used to be with the presence of your former significant other

2. Isn't it just the same like being in a rebound relationship ? (Note: Nobody likes to be the rebound guy/girl !)

3. Love is blind but don't be a love fool (Note: That sensation you feel when you hop on to the next relationship train is just pure illusion)

4. Stop wasting other people's time, why ? Because you will just make hurt your rebound boy/girl friend because they might expect something out of you and that is cruel.

So ladies and gentlemen, it is advisable after you broke up with your former significant other to stay single for a certain period of time depends on how long your previous relationship, how good is your mental condition and most importantly is being patient and not to rush yourself to another relationship that soon.

Here's are some cool things about being single :

1. You can appreciate your independence

2. You can control your finances

3. You have more time for social activities

4. You can be spontaneous

5. You can flirt without worry

Many more cool things about being single, but those five things i mentioned are what's best about being single for me. If you want to find love, then don't hop on to the next relationship train you got after you've just ended your long relationship. Do not be afraid of being single!!! Explore your options, be spontaneous, be awesome single person, be adventurous, after all being single doesn't mean it's the end of your life it is the other way around it is the beginning of your brand new life.